Stephan:   A few years ago I went to Japan and, while I was there I asked to be taken to a coffin hotel. No this is not a horror movie set, well not exactly. This is a kind of "hotel" made up of stacked fiberglas tubes about four feet high, by four feet wide, and 8 feet long. Young men rent and sleep in these spaces, and share common bathrooms. After talking with the residents I was invited to go to dinner with eight of them, all in their 20s to early 30s, and was happily surprised to discover that several spoke English well enough to have a substantive conversation. For the rest I had my minder who translated for me. It was a very interesting evening for many reasons but the one that has stayed uppermost in my mind was the realization that the one thing they all had in common was that they lived basically in virtual reality through avatars. They went to work, they hung out a bit together, but mostly they lived in virtual worlds constructed for them, or that they constructed with others. It was in that world that they had their meaningful relationships. Not one of them had a girl friend in real life, only a couple had even dated and, although I couldn't be sure, I think they were all virgins. Since then I have been following what I have come to think of as The Gamer Trend. That is men, mostly, but some women, who live the meaningful part of their lives in the virtual world. Studies in both Japan and America show that a significant portion of Millennials and what sociologists have begun calling Generation Z or Linksters -- roughly, it isn't precise -- those born after the Millennium -- show delayed sexual activity, or no interpersonal sexuality at all. At the same time another new trend is showing up in the social literature -- Digisexuality. That is people, again principally men, whose sexual life is involved with gadgets, dolls, or even robots. This report explains something of this growing trend.